‘Oh my God, you’re my brother’: Man in his 70s discovers 6 unknown siblings

By Hunter Crowther

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    TORONTO (CTV Network) — Hugh McCormick had received a DNA test kit from his son-in-law one Christmas after his daughter told her husband he was adopted. The Winnipeg resident was always curious about where he came from, partly wanting to know about his ethnic heritage, but also if he should be concerned about any hereditary health issues as he got older.

In an interview with CTVNews.ca, McCormick says he provided a saliva sample and sent it away, receiving the results in January 2023. He was relieved to know there were no health concerns, and the 23andMe test confirmed his northern European heritage.

But within the results, McCormick discovered an unknown relative who also took the 23andMe test. McCormick had his own birth certificate in his possession, which revealed his birth mother’s name. When he made first contact with this person, he asked if the name meant anything to them.

“Oh my God, you’re my brother,” McCormick recalls her saying. “There were a lot of tears, a lot of tears.”

But the news didn’t stop there, as his new sister informed him he had five other brothers, with whom he shared the same parents.

McCormick, 71 and now six-years retired after working for the Canadian National Railway, learned the story of his birth parents through his sister. His father was separated from a previous marriage when he met his mother. When they had a child, who turned out to be McCormick’s older brother, they sent him to live with his grandparents.

“You have to put it in the context of the 1950s,” he said. “It was inappropriate (to have a child out of wedlock) in those days.”

The couple had a second child, Hugh, and gave him up for adoption.

“After that, the father’s separation was finalized as a divorce and the parents wound up getting married. They had the rest of the children, and they never even told anybody about me.”

Now married with children, the couple would raise their kids near Kamloops, B.C.

His first contact with his new siblings was over the phone with his sister, which he called “an emotional experience.” She gave him the names and phone numbers of all the brothers.

The first of his newly discovered family members to visit was a group of three brothers. McCormick says what stood out to him was how similar they were, despite having never met.

“We were all sitting outside and my wife came out and said, ‘You guys all sound the same,'” McCormick recalls. “When we compared our lives, it turns out we had done a lot of the same kind of things.”

They learned they had similar interests. Their father was a master mechanic, which explained where the brothers developed their love for working on cars. Despite never knowing them, McCormick shared that passion for the intricacies of mechanics and working with your hands.

Later on, he would visit one brother in Saskatoon then last July, two other brothers visited him in Winnipeg. He says every experience was a positive one.

McCormick says his adopted parents were “fantastic” and that he couldn’t have asked for a better upbringing. He has one sister with his adopted family who lives about a half hour from where he is, and they chat regularly.

He refers to his genealogical discovery as “a win-win situation,” but that it’s too bad it took 70 years to find out. Still, he feels like everything worked out in the end.

“We contact each other on a semi-regular basis, and actually, they’ve mentioned to me that meeting my wife and I has brought them together because families can drift apart over the years,” McCormick said.

“Finding an unknown brother has kind of brought them all back together.”

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